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  • Some Women Learn the Room

    Day 110 – I’ve been thinking lately about how some women learn the room before they learn themselves. How to smile at the right moment. How to soften a sentence so nobody flinches.

  • The Way I Want My Life to Feel

    Day 109 – Lately I’ve been thinking less about what I want my life to look like and more about what I want it to feel like. Which, honestly, feels like progress. Or taste. Or both. Because appearances are easy to get hypnotized by. A beautiful room. A polished brand. The right clothes. The right…

  • A Woman With Range

    Day 108 – One thing I keep realizing lately is that I have range. Which sounds obvious until you remember the world is constantly trying to flatten women into one-note creatures for ease of handling. Soft or sharp. Smart or sexy.

  • The Cost of Being Awake

    Day 107 – There is a cost to being awake. And I don’t mean spiritually awake in the “I bought a candle and started using the word alignment” sense. I mean awake awake. The kind where you actually notice what’s happening. In yourself. In other people. In a room. In a sentence. In the tiny…

  • The Quiet Strength of Continuing

    Day 106 – Today felt simple. Not monumental. Not philosophical. Just one of those days where life moves forward quietly. I answered messages. Walked Roger. Thought about ideas for things I want to build in the future. And…

  • The Freedom of Being Unapologetically Alive

    Day 105 – There’s a particular kind of freedom that comes after you’ve survived something that should have broken you. Not reckless freedom. Clear freedom. The kind where you stop wasting energy pretending to be someone smaller than…

  • The World Didn’t End

    Day 104 – Something that surprises me lately is how ordinary life feels again. For a while after everything happened, I was convinced the world had fundamentally changed. Not just emotionally, but structurally. Like the whole atmosphere of…

  • Some Things Stay With You

    Day 103 – Some things stay with you. Not in the dramatic way people talk about trauma when they want to sound profound at brunch. I mean in the real way. The body way…

  • Some Days I Understand Too Much

    Day 102 – Some days I think the real problem is that I understand too much and not enough at the exact same time. Which is a deeply annoying way to be alive. I understand enough about trauma now to know why my body does what it does. Why certain sounds land wrong. Why a…

  • A Life That Belongs to Me

    Day 101 – One of the quiet realizations that’s been unfolding lately is this: My life belongs to me again. That might sound obvious, but when someone violates your safety the way I experienced last year, it can…