wildpoise

Day 115 - If Roger were a person, he would absolutely be one of those men who refers to himself as “a thought leader” and then immediately falls down two stairs while holding an iced coffee. I say this with love.

Day 113 - There’s something strange about becoming yourself after life has already tried to interrupt the process. Not stop it entirely. Just put its filthy little hands all over it. Complicate it. Humiliate it.

Day 114 - My nervous system has the audacity of a mediocre man with a podcast. That is the thought I had today. Because tell me why this bitch...

Day 112 - I still want beautiful things. That feels worth saying out loud. Because after trauma, there’s this strange pressure, internal, external, cultural, whatever, to become practical in a way that borders on emotional beige. As if once life has shown you its teeth, you should quietly retire all appetite and become a woman of sensible shoes, smaller wants, and low expectations.

Day 111 - I think taste is one of the most underrated forms of intelligence. Not just aesthetic taste, though obviously yes, I do believe a bad font says something spiritually concerning about a person. I mean taste in the larger sense. Taste in people. Taste in atmosphere. Taste in what belongs near your life and what absolutely does not. That kind of taste. And the more I’ve lived, the more I’ve realized it’s not shallow at all. It’s discernment with lipstick on. It’s knowing when something is beautiful and when it is merely expensive. When something is soft and when it is spineless. When someone is charming and when they are simply practiced.

Day 110 - I've been thinking lately about how some women learn the room before they learn themselves. How to smile at the right moment. How to soften a sentence so nobody flinches.

Day 109 - Lately I’ve been thinking less about what I want my life to look like and more about what I want it to feel like. Which, honestly, feels like progress. Or taste. Or both. Because appearances are easy to get hypnotized by. A beautiful room. A polished brand. The right clothes. The right words. The illusion of ease.

Day 108 - One thing I keep realizing lately is that I have range. Which sounds obvious until you remember the world is constantly trying to flatten women into one-note creatures for ease of handling. Soft or sharp. Smart or sexy.

Day 107 - There is a cost to being awake. And I don’t mean spiritually awake in the “I bought a candle and started using the word alignment” sense. I mean awake awake. The kind where you actually notice what’s happening. In yourself. In other people. In a room. In a sentence. In the tiny split second between what someone says and what they mean.

Day 106 - Today felt simple. Not monumental. Not philosophical. Just one of those days where life moves forward quietly. I answered messages. Walked Roger. Thought about ideas for things I want to build in the future. And...